monit @5.12.1: Couldn't find your SSL header files

[gbleydon]

54 # port installed | grep openssl
  openssl @1.0.2g_0 (active)

#port install -v monit 
...
checking for SSL support... enabled
checking for SSL include directory... Not found


Couldn't find your SSL header files.
Use --with-ssl-incl-dir option to fix this problem or disable
the SSL support with --without-ssl

found this via google: credit Mario Aeby

​https://translate.google.com/translate?hl=en&sl=de&u=https://blog.emeidi.com/2016/04/02/monit-mit-macports-unter-os-x-el-capitan-installieren-mit-angeblich-fehlenden-openssl-headern/&prev=search

ln -s /path/to/my/macports/opt/local/include /usr/local/include

port -v install monit
....
--->  Cleaning monit
--->  Removing work directory for monit
--->  Updating database of binaries
--->  Scanning binaries for linking errors
--->  No broken files found.   
                          
53 # monit -V
This is Monit version 5.12.1
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